But here's the president of the United States—a straight family-man who plays pick-up basketball and is not a radical queer activist—saying you're all right. At a time in his career when it might have been easier to keep silent, he acknowledges you, your desires, your daydreams, your worthiness to love and be loved. Of course, we can debate how brave this action actually was, just as we can debate the merits of a inherently conservative institution like marriage and the perhaps too-giddy rush of much of the gay movement to assimilate through it.

J Bryan Lowder, Slate, May 10, 2012